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What is the trait you most deplore in others?

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Seth Meyers American comedian and TV host
Taking fucking forever. Can’t you see I’m waiting?
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2015 source ↗
Adam Kay British comedy writer, author, youtuber, comedian and former physician
People who barge into a lift instead of standing aside for anyone exiting should be dipped in kerosene and fired into the sun.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 June 2023 source ↗
Certainty. I also can’t stand it when someone calls you and then says, “Wait, I need to put my headphones in.”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 January 2026 source ↗
Superiority. I shrink when I’m around people who act superior, whether it’s due to authority or intellect. I almost become mute.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 March 2026 source ↗

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