Vindictiveness and spite.
What is the trait you most deplore in others?
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Taking fucking forever. Can’t you see I’m waiting?
Fear and all of its consequences.
People who are not self-aware.
People who barge into a lift instead of standing aside for anyone exiting should be dipped in kerosene and fired into the sun.
Comparing themselves to other people.
Their inability to deal with my disorganisation.
People who aren’t polite.
Greed, lack of empathy. Same thing.
Jealousy. It’s the thief of joy.
Certainty. I also can’t stand it when someone calls you and then says, “Wait, I need to put my headphones in.”
Superiority. I shrink when I’m around people who act superior, whether it’s due to authority or intellect. I almost become mute.
Careless cruelty.
Snobbishness, superiority, condescension.
When they ruin my story because they think theirs is better, so butt in before I’ve finished mine.
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