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In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour, or habit has most improved your life?

Andy Murray

British professional tennis player, 2005–2024

I've never set out to be a spokesperson for women's equality.

Recorded · BBC News · 2017

Ray Dalio

Founder of Bridgewater Associates

I gained a humility that I needed in order to balance my audacity.

Recorded · TED · 2017

Kazuo Ishiguro

Novelist and screenwriter; Nobel laureate in Literature, 2017

The reason why so many vivid, undeniably convincing characters in novels, films and plays so often failed to touch me was because these characters didn’t connect to any of the other…

Recorded · The Nobel Foundation (nobelprize.org) · 2017

Nithin Kamath

Co-founder and chief executive of Zerodha

Sleeping by 9 pm & getting a workout at 5 am has been helpful. Sleeping early reduces the chances of bingeing when we are drained and have low self-control at the end of the day.

Recorded · Nithin Kamath's blog · 2022

Sundar Pichai

Chief executive of Alphabet and Google

It took me a while to realize that the internet would be the single best way to make technology accessible to more people.

Recorded · Google (The Keyword) · 2020

David Vélez

Co-founder and chief executive of Nubank

Moving closer to work. I live in São Paulo, Brazil, and I used to spend an hour or more in traffic every day, just sitting in the car getting frustrated and anxious.

Recorded · Sequoia Capital · 2018

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What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore?

Marina Abramović

Performance artist

Spend your time on something meaningful. Not on parties, and not on taking it easy. That’s not good enough.

Recorded · University Post (uniavisen.dk), University of Copenhagen

Bill Gates

Co-founder of Microsoft; co-chair of the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation

My last piece of advice is the one I could have used the most. It took me a long time to learn. And it is this: You are not a slacker if you cut yourself some slack.

Recorded · Gates Notes · 2023

Ephraim Asili

Filmmaker, Educator, and DJ

I would say start off small, build from there.

Recorded · ArtReview · 2024

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What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?

Terence Tao

Mathematician; Fields Medallist, 2006

AI without validation is too unreliable to be of use in any serious application.

Recorded · Quanta Magazine · 2026

Dan Pallotta

Founder of Pallotta TeamWorks; founder of the Charity Defense Council

This is what happens when we confuse morality with frugality.

Recorded · TED · 2013

Alan Shepard

Naval aviator and astronaut; the first American in space and the fifth person to walk on the Moon

Those are important, but there is still a need for any youngster who has any scientific interest at all to continue the lead that we have on technology in the world today, if we are…

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1991

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In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to?

Roddy Doyle

Novelist, dramatist and screenwriter

Do restrict your browsing to a few websites a day. Don’t go near the online bookies – unless it’s research. […] Do not search amazon.co.uk for the book you haven’t written yet.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2010

Adam Peaty

British swimmer; Olympic champion 2016 and 2021

I'm tired, I'm not myself and I'm not enjoying the sport as I have done for the last decade.

Recorded · The Independent · 2023

Joyce Carol Oates

Novelist, short story writer and essayist

I’ve turned down opportunities constantly. I turn down invitations to do things for money. I have almost no interest in making money.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1997

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