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My children. I was away an awful lot when they were little and not very good at being a father when I was around. I could have done better.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 5 May 2018 source ↗
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Frank Adamson, my first coach, for not spending more time with him in his later years. I feel bad about that.
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To my dad for not making it back to Birmingham to see him while I was in London doing The Streets.
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