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The moment my daughter was born in 1999, because it took me seven years to conceive.
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When my daughter Ella was born.
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Swimming in the North Sea at midnight, surrounded by phosphorescence.
Sofie Gråbøl
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Most recently, going to a 1D concert at Wembley with my nine-year-old daughter. Seeing her dream becoming real. The highlight was meeting a nice man in the elevator when it was over, who gave her Harry's autograph. Turned out to be his dad. To my daughter that was like meeting the archangel Gabriel.
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I had no female role models growing up. I lived an incredibly sheltered life: there was no TV at home and we had no visitors. It wasn’t until rock and pop came into my life that I concocted myself as a role model.
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