"I'd rather keep quiet and have people think I am stupid than open it and prove I am." I was selling cars to pay my way through university. The company car buyer said that to me.
Rosanna Greenstreet, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 March 2009 source ↗
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Called me the N-word.
“And for you, sir?” It happens a lot.
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