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Who deserves an apology from you, and for what?

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I did say sorry to my mum, for being the way I was when I was a teenager. You become a parent and go, “Oh my God, this is what they were doing.”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 January 2026 source ↗
Michelle Dockery British actress
A teacher at my secondary school. We used to write and sing songs about him. Sorry, Sir! You were a great teacher.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 January 2020 source ↗
To my cousin P, who was one of my best mates growing up. We lost him when we were in our 20s and, before he passed away, I was so busy with this stupid thing called life and a brand new kid. He called me and said: “Bro, I’m not feeling right.” And I said: “Bro, you’ve never been feeling right.” And it always sits on my head that if me or somebody else had been paying more attention maybe things would have worked out different. He had extremely rare bowel cancer and died five weeks later at 27.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 December 2025 source ↗
Greg James British author, broadcaster, comedian, and presenter
The person who had to empty the bin on that train to Oxford.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 March 2019 source ↗

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