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What disappointment has stayed with you longest?

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George H. W. Bush 41st President of the United States, 1989–1993
When I lost a race for the United States Senate, I thought the world was going to end for me politically, and 18 years later I was elected President of the United States. The biggest disappointment was that I wasn't able to communicate properly to the American people — with the proper conviction and the proper ability — where the country really stood. The pessimists, the naysayers, the change-wanters overwhelmed me, and I wasn't good enough. I wasn't articulate enough to have the country understand that we weren't in a recession, that we were in a rather booming economy in the last half of my presidency. That was a personal shortcoming, a failure on my path.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗
Ed Balls British broadcaster and politician
That my competitive pole vault career ended at the age of 15.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 November 2008 source ↗
Richard Hammond English journalist, television presenter, and author
Failing my driving test first time; that was a disappointment on a geological scale.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2009 source ↗
Vince Cable British politician
The failure of my party to make the big political breakthrough it deserves.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 April 2009 source ↗
Clare Balding English broadcaster, journalist, TV presenter and author
My A-level grades – but I got over it.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 January 2011 source ↗
Jesse Jackson American minister, activist and politician
Many have fought for and even lost their lives to end segregation, to win the right to vote. It disappoints me to now have to cajole people to register and to vote.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 April 2012 source ↗
Angela Eagle British politician
Being phoned by the prime minister and sacked from my role as a home office minister in front of 100 people I was about to speak to. But to be fair to Tony, he did appoint me in the first place.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 April 2012 source ↗
Joan Bakewell English journalist, television presenter and politician
Not being on Morecambe & Wise.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 October 2013 source ↗
Barack Obama 44th President of the United States, 2009–2017; United States Senator from Illinois 2005–2008
If you ask me where has been the one area where I feel that I've been most frustrated and most stymied it is the fact that the United States of America is the one advanced nation on earth in which we do not have sufficient common-sense, gun-safety laws. Even in the face of repeated mass killings. … And for us not to be able to resolve that issue has been something that is distressing. But it is not something that I intend to stop working on in the remaining 18 months.
Recorded Jon Sopel, BBC News interview, the White House, 24 July 2015 source ↗
Sadiq Khan Mayor of London since 2016
Labour losing the 2015 election: we weren’t able to help the people who needed us most.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 September 2016 source ↗
Hillary Clinton Former U.S. Secretary of State and 2016 Democratic presidential nominee
Losing is my biggest regret, and losing to someone who was not qualified and did not have the experience or the temperament to be president of the United States. That is my biggest regret.
Recorded Tamara Keith, NPR interview about What Happened, 12 September 2017 source ↗

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Not being able to start my own company

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