Forgetting the words to my own songs on stage. I’m a very good mumbler of my own songs. You’d be surprised how few people notice – if you smile and do it confidently, they’re none the wiser.
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Forgetting the words to my own songs on stage. I’m a very good mumbler of my own songs. You’d be surprised how few people notice – if you smile and do it confidently, they’re none the wiser.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 July 2026 source ↗
Missing a cue on stage. I had to come on and move a piece of furniture with another actor and I completely forgot. I looked at the monitor and said, “Why is he standing on his own?” And somebody said, “Aren’t you meant to help him?”
An earthquake in Peru forced me and a young man into the street, where he had to introduce me to his family at three in the morning.
On one of my first jobs, Cold Mountain, I got a wasp in my ear in front of Jude Law. He couldn’t see the wasp so just saw me freak out.
I don’t embarrass easily: I’m kinda shameless.
As an Italian, tinned spaghetti. As a child, I was once served it at someone’s house. It was quite frightening.
Alanis Morissette because, in my earlier career, she was a big influence on me and had a feistiness that you didn’t see much of in women in the industry. Also, she has been very vocal about mental health issues.
None. I’m not ashamed. I’m dyslexic so I don’t read a lot of books.
On the way here, because I was late.
I’ve enjoyed every single job, including working at my dad’s chicken shop selling potato gems (fried potato circles) to the surfer dudes.
Not having the ability to say sorry when they’re wrong.
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