British swimmer; Olympic champion 2016 and 2021
To the people who, because of my career, I cannot spend time with. I have to be selfish, unfortunately.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 January 2022 source ↗
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British swimmer; Olympic champion 2016 and 2021
To the people who, because of my career, I cannot spend time with. I have to be selfish, unfortunately.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 January 2022 source ↗
I did say sorry to my mum, for being the way I was when I was a teenager. You become a parent and go, “Oh my God, this is what they were doing.”
To all those whose fleeting interaction with me has fallen short of what they’d hoped; the unwitting recipients of my occasional grumpiness.
To anyone I’ve unintentionally hurt or upset.
My dog, Mr Q, because he has the saddest look when I leave.
I was on a cliff in Dartmoor, doing a Royal Marine abseil. I fell upside down and thought, “I’m going to die here.”
When I lost that 100m final I spiralled. I went quite aggressive. It is an Adam I don't really recognise.
The realisation that I am not the best version of myself.
As a great man.
I'm tired, I'm not myself and I'm not enjoying the sport as I have done for the last decade. Some might recognise it as burnout; I just know that over the last few years I haven't had the answers.
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