What is the most important lesson life has taught you?

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Recorded Alan Cumming said elsewhere, not written here
Biggest lesson; Treat people respectfully. There's a sort of vogue, and there has been for decades now, that the director is god and the director is all knowing.

John Gaspard, Interview, Fast, Cheap Film Books & More, 18 March 2026 source ↗

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Shinya Yamanaka Stem cell biologist; Nobel laureate in Physiology or Medicine, 2012
So I think failure is important in my career.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interviewer, Academy of Achievement interview, 2008 source ↗
Albie Sachs Anti-apartheid lawyer; Justice of the Constitutional Court of South Africa
But there’s nothing like that quality of leading a decent, dignified life, meeting up with other people who have similar ideals, expressing kindness and love and curiosity and challenging and argument and the excitement of ideas. Ideas can be marvelous.
Recorded Interview, Cape Town, South Africa, American Academy of Achievement, 3 July 2009 source ↗

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Question How does a new work begin for you? Craft & work
No, I would never say that. I would never say that I do something just in order to put a fresh spin on it or do something different with it. I am drawn to certain plays because I think there’s something about them in the story that I want to tell, or that I think is relevant—something that strikes me. With Macbeth, I’m not doing this because I want to do a crazy interpretation or production.
Recorded Gerry Visco, Interview Magazine, 19 April 2013 source ↗
Question How do you balance creative work with other responsibilities? Daily life
I do take a break, but I’ve also got – right now, I’m writing another book, another memoir [a follow-up to his bestselling book Not My Father’s Son: A Memoir], so even though I’m on a break technically, I’ve got that. I’ve got a production company so things are always rolling. I’m always spinning a lot of plates.
Recorded Paula Bernstein, Interview, Fortune, 18 November 2019 source ↗

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