I stayed on the path out of fear, not of being eaten by a wolf, but of being cut, being benched, losing my paycheck. If I could go back and tell my younger self one thing it would be this: "Abby, you were never Little Red Riding Hood; you were always the wolf."
What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore?
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What are you unwilling to optimise?
Values & belief
No. Go for it, as I did it. Go for all the mistakes. I made so many mistakes in doing my films. They all have a stutter or a limp or they are squint-eyed. Hardly anyone notices it, but I notice. Make your mistakes. Get arrested if you trespass. Yes. Do it. There’s nothing wrong with spending a night or two in jail. I’ve done that. Don’t be afraid of the grizzly bear behind you. Travel on foot. Read books.
Rolling Stone, Rolling Stone, 'The Last Word' interview, 1 January 2020 source ↗
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Abby Wambach
United States international footballer, 2001–2015
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Barnard College commencement address, Radio City Music Hall, New York, Speakola, 16 May 2018
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John Lewis
U.S. Representative from Georgia, 1987–2020; Chairman of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee 1963–1966
You must find a way to get in the way, you must find a way to get into trouble — good trouble, necessary trouble.
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Emory University Quadrangle, Atlanta, Emory News Center, Emory University, 12 May 2014
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Amy Tan
Novelist; author of The Joy Luck Club
I go back to this idea that I only discovered when I was older. I wish I had known it when I was younger, because I think I missed a lot of observations in life. That is to develop your own philosophy. I always thought philosophy was one of the most useless subjects in the world.
Jürgen Klopp
German football manager; Liverpool 2015–2024
You have to change from doubter to believer.
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Introductory press conference as Liverpool manager, Anfield, October 2015, Sky Sports, 17 May 2024
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More from Werner Herzog
View profile →It’s how we are made as homo sapiens. We are biologically organized to cover distances on foot. That’s what we did for tens of thousands of years until we started to use horses, of course, until the mechanical age. And I would not call it “walking” because it’s not going out for a stroll or going out for a “power walk” or ambling in your city. It’s “traveling on foot.” You are reading the world, learning the essence of the world.
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National Geographic, National Geographic, interview conducted via Zoom, 1 January 2020
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