Failure & regret
What disappointment has stayed with you longest?
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The distribution of Copying Beethoven in the US.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 August 2007
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Not doing more movies.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 June 2008
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I don't go in for disappointment.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 September 2008
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That I wasn't Indiana Jones.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 April 2009
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Paul O'Grady
British comedian, actor and television presenter
Too many of my friends, family and peers dying.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 May 2009
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That my critics remain healthy, despite violent attacks of spleen.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 June 2009
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Not to have been a rock'n'roll star.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 October 2009
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That Barack Obama seems to be more concerned with becoming re-elected than with doing his very best to fulfil the promise of his candidacy.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 January 2010
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The closure of Talk magazine.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 May 2010
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Not pitching a perfect game in baseball to win the World Series.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 9 October 2010
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Many of the so-called celebs I've met.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 October 2010
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Kirsty Wark
Scottish journalist and television presenter
Not singing in a band.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 December 2010
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Not having children.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 October 2011
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Not being able to take up my place at Rada.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 March 2012
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Being phoned by the prime minister and sacked from my role as a home office minister in front of 100 people I was about to speak to. But to be fair to Tony, he did appoint me in the first place.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 April 2012
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Not hearing the Ellington band live.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 July 2012
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Not working at the Royal Court until now.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 June 2013
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Not going to uni and getting my English degree.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 September 2013
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I was very disappointed when I realised I was never going to be an Olympic gymnast, but that was a long time ago.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 October 2013
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Not being born a boy.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 November 2013
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Not being able to start my own company
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