Time & hindsight

What is the most important lesson life has taught you?

141 answers answered between 1956 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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Richard Feynman Theoretical physicist; Nobel laureate in Physics, 1965
It is necessary, I believe, to accept this idea, not only for science, but also for other things; it is of great value to acknowledge ignorance.  It is a fact that when we make decisions in our life we don't necessarily know that we are making them correctly; we only think that we are doing the best we can – and that is what we should do.
Recorded Caltech YMCA Lunch Forum, Engineering and Science / Caltech Magazine, 2 May 1956 source ↗
Paul Kalanithi Neurosurgeon and writer
I remember the moment when my overwhelming uneasiness yielded. Seven words from Samuel Beckett, a writer I’ve not even read that well, learned long ago as an undergraduate, began to repeat in my head, and the seemingly impassable sea of uncertainty parted: “I can’t go on. I’ll go on.” I took a step forward, repeating the phrase over and over: “I can’t go on. I’ll go on.” And then, at some point, I was through.
Recorded The New York Times, Sunday Review, 24 January 2014 source ↗
Kate Bowler Historian of American Christianity; professor at Duke Divinity School
But cancer has also ushered in new ways of being alive. Even when I am this distant from Canadian family and friends, everything feels as if it is painted in bright colors. In my vulnerability, I am seeing my world without the Instagrammed filter of breezy certainties and perfectible moments. I can’t help noticing the brittleness of the walls that keep most people fed, sheltered and whole. I find myself returning to the same thoughts again and again: Life is so beautiful. Life is so hard.
Recorded The New York Times, Sunday Review, 13 February 2016 source ↗
Jack Whitehall English comedian, actor, presenter and writer
Don’t make jokes at the expense of Little Mix. They have an ardent fanbase.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 April 2023 source ↗
Nothing’s guaranteed and things change in an instant, and to get used to that and stay in the moment.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 December 2023 source ↗

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