Time & hindsight

What is the most important lesson life has taught you?

141 answers answered between 1956 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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Steve Jobs Co-founder and chief executive of Apple; co-founder of NeXT; chief executive of Pixar
I'm convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance. It is so hard. You put so much of your life into this thing. There are such rough moments in time that I think most people give up. I don't blame them. Its really tough and it consumes your life.
Recorded Daniel Morrow, Smithsonian Institution Oral and Video Histories, for the Computerworld Smithsonian Awards Program, 20 April 1995 source ↗
Shinya Yamanaka Stem cell biologist; Nobel laureate in Physiology or Medicine, 2012
So I think failure is important in my career.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interviewer, Academy of Achievement interview, 2008 source ↗
Gino D'Acampo Italian-British celebrity chef and media personality
Minimum effort, maximum satisfaction. That’s the way everyone should live.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 December 2022 source ↗
Adam Lambert American singer
Compare and despair. Comparing yourself with someone else or what someone else is doing or what someone else has is a recipe for sadness. What matters is who you are and what you want.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 February 2023 source ↗
Ronnie O'Sullivan English snooker player
Perspective. I used to zoom in and it would be all catastrophic, now I zoom out and get a bit of perspective.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 May 2023 source ↗
Simon Boas Aid worker; executive director of Jersey Overseas Aid
All our tombs will be unvisited in a few years - all our actions will mostly be unremembered - but the smile you gave the checkout lady or the kind words you gave to a stranger in the street could still be rippling forward. We all have that opportunity and it's a huge power.
Recorded Emma Barnett, BBC Radio 4, Today, as published by BBC News, 4 July 2024 source ↗
That you get out of life what you put in. When you grow up on a farm you literally reap what you sow.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2026 source ↗

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