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Deciding what to do next

For a fork in the road. People on what they stopped doing and how they knew, what they refuse to make more efficient, and where they think the consensus in their own field has it wrong.

22 people · 155 answers

What made you stop something you were known for, and how did you know it was time?

Desmond Tutu

Anglican Archbishop of Cape Town; chair of South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission; Nobel Peace Prize, 1984

Recorded · American Academy of Achievement · 2004

I stopped being a teacher when the South African Government introduced a deliberately inferior education for blacks called Bantu education, and I felt I wasn’t ready to collaborate with…
Jessye Norman

Operatic soprano and recitalist

Recorded · Academy of Achievement (achievement.org)

As a very young singer, I was invited to the opera house in Berlin by the then-director of the opera house, Egon Seefehlner, and I had one opera to my name that I knew.
Derek Sivers

Founder of CD Baby; author of Anything You Want

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2023

I read that at a key fork in the road moment for me where I just sold CD Baby and had a ton of money.
Li Na

Chinese professional tennis player, 1999–2014

Recorded · WTA (archived) · 2014

The task of finally making a decision to hang up my racquet felt a lot more difficult than winning seven matches in a row in the Australian heat.
Kobe Bryant

United States basketball player, Los Angeles Lakers, 1996–2016

Recorded · The Players' Tribune · 2015

You gave a six-year-old boy his Laker dream And I'll always love you for it. But I can't love you obsessively for much longer. This season is all I have left to give.
Suzanne Farrell

Ballerina and ballet master; répétiteur for the Balanchine Trust

Recorded · Academy of Achievement (achievement.org)

By the time I admitted that I needed a hip operation, I had denied it for so long that it was a breakthrough to suddenly say, “I need this.” I knew I would probably never dance again, but I…

What does everyone in your world seem to agree on that you think is wrong?

Ursula K. Le Guin

Novelist, poet and essayist

Recorded · ursulakleguin.com (the author's own site) · 2014

Books aren’t just commodities; the profit motive is often in conflict with the aims of art. We live in capitalism, its power seems inescapable — but then, so did the divine right of kings.
Rahul Dravid

India Test and one-day international cricketer, 1996–2012; later India head coach

Recorded · ESPNcricinfo · 2011

One of the biggest challenges that the game must respond to today, I believe, is charting out a clear road map for the three formats.
Mario Molina

Atmospheric chemist; Nobel laureate in Chemistry, 1995

Recorded · Chemical & Engineering News · 2013

As I was starting my academic career, it was almost considered to be a negative signal to your career to get involved in politics ...
Lee Berger

Palaeoanthropologist; University of the Witwatersrand

Recorded · American Academy of Achievement · 2012

There was very much a real feel that we probably pretty much discovered every major fossil field in Africa. And in fact, some scientists even wrote that down at the turn of the millennia.
Tadao Ando

Architect; Pritzker Prize laureate, 1995

Recorded · The Hyatt Foundation / The Pritzker Architecture Prize · 1995

The modern architecture that I have been weaned on also espouses (clear) function, (exposed) structure, and (raw) material as principles—characteristics that tend to be accessed only from…

What are you unwilling to optimise?

Chris Hoy

British track cyclist, 1994–2013

Recorded · The Independent · 2010

I don't enjoy it but I know that I have got to live with [myself] if I'm not going to give it 100 per cent.
Bong Joon-ho

Film director and screenwriter

Recorded · Polygon · 2019

There were times when I thought I wanted to be a cartoonist. If I weren’t a film director, I think cartoons would have been a good alternative.
Edmund Hillary

Mountaineer and explorer; first ascent of Everest, 1953

Recorded · Academy of Achievement

I still regard adventure pretty much as a hobby to tell you the honest truth, and I think this approach to it keeps one refreshed almost.
Ursula K. Le Guin

Novelist, poet and essayist

Recorded · ursulakleguin.com (the author's own site) · 2014

I’ve had a long career as a writer, and a good one, in good company. Here at the end of it, I don’t want to watch American literature get sold down the river.
Derek Sivers

Founder of CD Baby; author of Anything You Want

Recorded · Derek Sivers · 2011

Do you have a big visionary master plan for how the world will work in twenty years? Do you have massive ambitions to revolutionize your industry? Don’t feel bad if you don’t. I never did.
Tom Stoppard

Playwright and screenwriter

Recorded · The Paris Review, Issue 109, Winter 1988 · 1988

I don’t think of it as research. I read for interest and enjoyment, and when I cease to enjoy it I stop.

In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to?

Naomi Osaka

Japanese professional tennis player

Recorded · Time · 2021

I communicated that I wanted to skip press conferences at Roland Garros to exercise self-care and preservation of my mental health. I stand by that. Athletes are humans.
Paul Graham

Co-founder of Viaweb and of the startup accelerator Y Combinator; essayist

Recorded · paulgraham.com · 2016

When I ask myself what I've found life is too short for, the word that pops into my head is “bullshit.” I realize that answer is somewhat tautological.
Zadie Smith

Novelist and essayist

Recorded · The Guardian · 2010

Protect the time and space in which you write. Keep everybody away from it, even the people who are most important to you.
Steve Jobs

Co-founder and chief executive of Apple; co-founder of NeXT; chief executive of Pixar

Recorded · Fortune · 2008

We tend to focus much more. People think focus means saying yes to the thing you've got to focus on. But that's not what it means at all.
Simone Biles

United States artistic gymnast

Recorded · Rev · 2021

I just felt like it would be a little bit better to take a back seat, work on my mindfulness.
Roddy Doyle

Novelist, dramatist and screenwriter

Recorded · The Guardian · 2010

Do restrict your browsing to a few websites a day. Don’t go near the online bookies – unless it’s research. […] Do not search amazon.co.uk for the book you haven’t written yet.

Whose work makes you envious?

Dax Shepard

Actor and film-maker; host of the Armchair Expert podcast

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2020

I would always be tempted to take a movie I liked less if the payday was twice as much, and I’ve interviewed a couple people that grew up with wealth and I’ve watched them navigate their…
Matthew Walker

Neuroscientist; professor of neuroscience and psychology at the University of California, Berkeley

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2023

there were a group of scientists from the University of Geneva who conducted a brilliant study.
Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Author and probability researcher; Distinguished Professor of Risk Engineering at NYU

Recorded · The Tim Ferriss Show · 2023

I say envious of people who are erudite. Like if someone knows Latin very well, I’m envious. If someone knows Sanskrit, I’m envious. And I discovered that early on.
Richard Hamming

Mathematician and computer scientist; Turing Award, 1968

Recorded · Bell Communications Research Colloquium Seminar (transcription hosted by the University of Virginia Department of Computer Science) · 1986

I worked for ten years with John Tukey at Bell Labs. He had tremendous drive. One day about three or four years after I joined, I discovered that John Tukey was slightly younger than I was.
Jacinda Ardern

Prime Minister of New Zealand, 2017–2023; Leader of the Labour Party 2017–2023

Recorded · Harvard Magazine · 2022

Recently I had the privilege of joining ex German Chancellor, Angela Merkel on a panel. I have long been in awe of her leadership, not least for her endurance. She was in power for 16 years.

Everyone here · A–Z

Aung San Suu Kyi, Barack Obama, Bill Clinton, Charlie Munger, Chris Hoy, Christiane Nüsslein-Volhard, David Vélez, Derek Sivers, Desmond Tutu, Edmund Hillary, Jocelyn Bell Burnell, Mario Molina, Mellody Hobson, Mohamed ElBaradei, Oliver Sacks, Richard Feynman, Serena Williams, Shinya Yamanaka, Simone Biles, Steve Jobs, Warren Buffett, Winston Churchill

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