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For a bad week. What people do when they cannot think straight, what they carried out of the worst thing that happened to them, and what turned out later to have been the beginning of something.

25 people · 152 answers

When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do?

Ellie Simmonds

British Paralympic swimmer, 2008–2021

Recorded · The Telegraph · 2021

When I was in Beijing, London, and also in Rio I was still a kid really, I didn't feel pressure. Now I'm a 26 year old woman. Being a lot older I feel those expectations.
Albie Sachs

Anti-apartheid lawyer; Justice of the Constitutional Court of South Africa

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2009

I would try to keep myself going by inventing games, and I would sing songs, a song beginning with “A,” “Always.” “Because,” “Charmaine,” “Daisy,” go through the alphabet. ...
Winston Churchill

Prime Minister of the United Kingdom, 1940–1945 and 1951–1955; Member of Parliament 1900–1964

Recorded · International Churchill Society · 1941

You cannot tell from appearances how things will go. Sometimes imagination makes things out far worse than they are; yet without imagination not much can be done.
Brian Eno

Composer, record producer and visual artist

Recorded · Telekom Electronic Beats · 2011

My favorite method is stopping everything for a moment. It’s amazing how difficult I find it these days to simply sit quietly.
Simone Biles

United States artistic gymnast

Recorded · Rev · 2021

Yes. Today has been really stressful. We had a workout this morning. It went okay. And then just that five and a half hour wait or something. I was just shaking, could barely nap.

How has a setback or failure set you up for later success?

Francis Collins

American physician-scientist

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2000

about 95% of the experiments we do are total failures, and that’s because we’re out there on the leading edge of what’s possible, and most of the time it isn’t quite possible.
Susan Butcher

Dog musher; four-time winner of the Iditarod Trail Sled Dog Race

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1991

I feel that because I challenge myself so often, sometimes I will fail. This is, to me, the essence of competition — that there will be both winners and losers.
Warren Buffett

Chairman and chief executive of Berkshire Hathaway, 1970–2025

Recorded · Berkshire Hathaway Inc. · 1990

My first mistake, of course, was in buying control of Berkshire. Though I knew its business - textile manufacturing - to be unpromising, I was enticed to buy because the price looked cheap.
Steve Jobs

Co-founder and chief executive of Apple; co-founder of NeXT; chief executive of Pixar

Recorded · Stanford News (Stanford University) · 2005

I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.
John Updike

Novelist, poet and critic; twice winner of the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1999

I was prepared to fail. I was prepared to not be able to get things accepted, because I saw that happen to my mother.
Nora Ephron

Journalist, essayist, screenwriter and film director

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2007

I wish I had learned more from failure than just mortification. I don’t think you learn much from success, and I don’t think you learn much from failure, unfortunately.

What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it?

Nobu Matsuhisa

Chef and restaurateur

Recorded · The Observer / The Guardian · 2025

I moved to Argentina, then back to Tokyo and then to Anchorage, in Alaska, where I ran a restaurant. After 50 days the restaurant burnt down – an electrical fire. I lost my dream.
Elie Wiesel

Writer and human rights advocate; Nobel Peace Prize laureate, 1986

Recorded · American Academy of Achievement · 1996

After the war — I was 15 when I entered the camp, I was 16 when I left it, and all of a sudden you become an orphan and you have no one.
Athol Fugard

Playwright, director and actor

Recorded · The Paris Review, Issue 111, Summer 1989 · 1985

I don’t think I could. Of course I’m saying this on American soil. I’m facing a few more months of work in this city, but at the end of it, I will be returning to South Africa.
Wole Soyinka

Playwright, poet and novelist; Nobel laureate in Literature, 1986

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2009

Writing became a therapy. First of all, it meant I was reconstructing my own existence. It was also an act of defiance. I wasn’t supposed to write. ...
Barack Obama

44th President of the United States, 2009–2017; United States Senator from Illinois 2005–2008

Recorded · The White House (Obama administration archive) · 2013

I was raised by a heroic single mom, wonderful grandparents -- made incredible sacrifices for me. … But I sure wish I had had a father who was not only present, but involved.
Willie Mays

Baseball centre fielder; twice National League Most Valuable Player

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 1996

I was the first black in that particular league. And, we played in a town called Hagerstown, Maryland. ...

In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour, or habit has most improved your life?

Nithin Kamath

Co-founder and chief executive of Zerodha

Recorded · Nithin Kamath's blog · 2022

Sleeping by 9 pm & getting a workout at 5 am has been helpful. Sleeping early reduces the chances of bingeing when we are drained and have low self-control at the end of the day.
Joe Lycett

Comedian, television presenter and artist

Recorded · The Observer / The Guardian · 2024

Every year I get more of an understanding of what I need to be happy. If I haven’t slept enough, or if I haven’t exercised, I’m more likely to be in a bad mood.
Abby Wambach

United States international footballer, 2001–2015

Recorded · Speakola · 2018

You see, soccer didn't make me who I was. I brought who I was to soccer, and I get to bring who I am wherever I go. And guess what? So do you.
Barack Obama

44th President of the United States, 2009–2017; United States Senator from Illinois 2005–2008

Recorded · Vanity Fair · 2012

You'll see I wear only gray or blue suits. … I'm trying to pare down decisions. I don't want to make decisions about what I'm eating or wearing.
Akio Toyoda

President of Toyota Motor Corporation, 2009–2023; chairman from 2023

Recorded · Babson College (Babson Thought & Action) · 2019

Even I can't predict what kind of car we will be driving 20 years from now, but my time at Babson taught me to embrace change rather than run from it, and I urge all of you to do the same.
Kazuo Ishiguro

Novelist and screenwriter; Nobel laureate in Literature, 2017

Recorded · The Nobel Foundation (nobelprize.org) · 2017

The reason why so many vivid, undeniably convincing characters in novels, films and plays so often failed to touch me was because these characters didn’t connect to any of the other…

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